What's the big issue?
Having trouble with toilet training? You're not alone! Approximately 1.5 MILLION children and young people in the UK live with barriers that prevent them from achieving toileting independence. Consequently, many children experience feelings of shame and are at a greater risk of developing unhealthy eating and drinking habits in a bid to gain control.
These children are also at higher risk of bullying, which can lead to complex trauma in later life. Some children are so greatly impacted that they may refuse to engage in essential occupations (such as school) altogether, for fear of wetting or soiling themselves publicly. The impact on children facing toileting challenges can be astronomical.
Factors to consider:
Assessing & addressing toileting
The many factors contributing to toileting difficulties mean that there is no 'one size fits all' answer. So, how can we help the child develop independence? First and foremost, we need to identify which problem(s) the child is experiencing. Where appropriate, try to have an honest conversation about toileting with your child. Approach them with kindness, and reassure them that it's completely normal and that you're there to help.
If your child isn't old enough for this approach, you can seek the guidance of an appropriate healthcare professional, who can complete an assessment to ascertain the best approach for your child.
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